Discerning right relationships is so vital. The development of honor, respect and reverence is not just a bottom up character trait. It has to be woven into the character fabric of every leader. Many leaders today are not assuming the role of fathers but that of guardians and stewards, (Gal 4:1) but demanding the respect due to a father… So we see too many of the relationships in the church today are that of Governors/Stewards and not fathers. Just managing the "house"…